Dry roast the peanuts in a heavy bottom pan over medium heat until golden brown and keep aside to cool.
Similarly dry roast the sesame seeds, poppy seeds and desiccated coconut separately and keep aside to cool.
Grind all the roasted ingredients with little water to a fine paste.
Wash brinjal/eggplant under running water.
Cut the brinjal/eggplant partially into four parts, keep the stalk intact.
Heat the oil and fry them, they can be shallow fried.
Drain out on absorbent paper and keep aside.
Heat 2 tablespoons of oil In a pan over medium heat.
Add fenugreek seeds, mustard seeds, cumin seeds, fennel seeds and onion seeds.
Add curry leaves, ginger paste, garlic paste and green chilli.
Stir and sauté till the oil separates from the masala.
After adding onion, stir it and cook until translucent.
Apply turmeric powder, coriander powder, red chilli powder, cumin powder and salt and mix well.
Now add the peanut paste stir and cook for 5-8 minutes.
Add the tamarind and jaggery and mix well and cook till the oil separates.
Add the fried brinjals and one cup of water and mix. Cover and simmer for fifteen to twenty minutes.
Serve hot with roti, rice, biryani chapati or paratha.